Passionate love stories are something we all are searching for. The question is: Why are we looking for them? Are we looking for just another high?
I actually can not answer that, I do not think anyone can. What I can tell you however is to enjoy the high and look for love, but also know that all highs in life are temporary, they will end at some point, or maybe transform would be a better word.
So, here is the question: What happens now? I don't have a clear answer to this. One thing is highly possible, that the passion part will transform to something else.
Exactly what comes next is a matter of chance as well as a matter of participants choice.
It can very well reach a totally different level, to a level where is peace, love and knowing that this is exactly how it should be.
Sometimes it just ends. Often the reason behind is that the characters of the people involved are not compatible.
This is why I recommend everyone to look at the person itself, persons character, rather than social status or an outer appearance.
While we do go for looks, we should also go for the person itself, because looks is temporary and you ideally would have to spend a lot of time with that person. A lot of time.
So, do go for the passionate love stories, enjoy the passion of life, but also know that everything is temporary. That is the wisdom you should always keep. In fact this is what enable you to enjoy your life more, because you are not afraid of loosing something, and less fear means more joy.
Life does not reward fear. Fear at a large extent is not useful to us at all. It is normal, but not that useful. When we start to accept that everything, even passionate love stories are temporary, we start to loose fear, because there is nothing to lose really. This is when we can start to enjoy our lives more.
I actually can not answer that, I do not think anyone can. What I can tell you however is to enjoy the high and look for love, but also know that all highs in life are temporary, they will end at some point, or maybe transform would be a better word.
So, here is the question: What happens now? I don't have a clear answer to this. One thing is highly possible, that the passion part will transform to something else.
Exactly what comes next is a matter of chance as well as a matter of participants choice.
It can very well reach a totally different level, to a level where is peace, love and knowing that this is exactly how it should be.
Sometimes it just ends. Often the reason behind is that the characters of the people involved are not compatible.
This is why I recommend everyone to look at the person itself, persons character, rather than social status or an outer appearance.
While we do go for looks, we should also go for the person itself, because looks is temporary and you ideally would have to spend a lot of time with that person. A lot of time.
So, do go for the passionate love stories, enjoy the passion of life, but also know that everything is temporary. That is the wisdom you should always keep. In fact this is what enable you to enjoy your life more, because you are not afraid of loosing something, and less fear means more joy.
Life does not reward fear. Fear at a large extent is not useful to us at all. It is normal, but not that useful. When we start to accept that everything, even passionate love stories are temporary, we start to loose fear, because there is nothing to lose really. This is when we can start to enjoy our lives more.
About the Author:
Charlie Mai is kind of obsessed about love, you can read his article about how to get over someone and thoughts about love stories.
